When did you realize your "secret" was actually the norm?
Quote from barek1337235 on April 16, 2026, 7:30 amI spent most of my adult life thinking I was "extra" for how much I enjoyed exploring adult media. I used to go into full panic mode if someone even glanced at my laptop screen. But lately, I’ve been more vocal about it, and the response has been eye-opening. I recently mentioned porn during a casual chat with some close friends, and it turned into this three-hour talk about our favorite genres and what we find empowering. It turns out, I wasn't the "weird" one; I was just the only one who hadn't spoken up yet. Has anyone else had that moment where the "shame" just felt... outdated?
I spent most of my adult life thinking I was "extra" for how much I enjoyed exploring adult media. I used to go into full panic mode if someone even glanced at my laptop screen. But lately, I’ve been more vocal about it, and the response has been eye-opening. I recently mentioned porn during a casual chat with some close friends, and it turned into this three-hour talk about our favorite genres and what we find empowering. It turns out, I wasn't the "weird" one; I was just the only one who hadn't spoken up yet. Has anyone else had that moment where the "shame" just felt... outdated?
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